Tonya L Jones
So, about a week ago I am
doing my morning ritual of scrolling the newsfeed of my Facebook page. Instead of watching TV news, I like to find out
about what’s happening in the world via social media. I have “liked” many
groups on Facebook that I feel provide a better alternative voice for people
who are often marginalized in mainstream news (POC, the poor, etc). My favorite
page What About Our Daughters (a blog dedicated to the empowerment of Black girls
and women), posted a scathing review on an article that had just been published
in the New York Times. The article was
called “Why Black Women Are Fat” written by Alice Randall (a self-identified
Black woman). The article seemed like a
well-meaning discussion on the issue of obesity in the black community, yet in
the end it was just another mainstream piece to publically shame black women (it’s
a known fact that the BMI is racially biased).
If Ms. Randall was truly concerned about the plight of “fat” Black women
why not discuss it in a Black woman’s magazine like Heart & Soul (dedicated
to the health of Black women). The mainstream newspapers don’t care about fat
OR skinny Black women (I mean I haven’t seen any articles about missing Black
women, have you?)
The
writer of WAOD noted, “We get it, we’re Black, we’re a fat, we’re all gonna
DIE!” I could relate to WAOD’s frustrations. Within the last year there seems
to be a media obsession with all things Black women and not in a good way. We
can’t get any man to marry us (as if that’s our biggest goal in life), we have
the highest rates of herpes (the CDC had to retract that statement after
claiming they “made a mistake” in their research), we only have $5 dollars to
our name, and we are considered the ugliest of women (Psychology Today’s “Why
Are Black Women Less Physically Attractive Than Other Women?”). Dealing with issues of weight can be hard for
Black women as we have to struggle against two standards of beauty, outside AND
within the black community.
Just as Eurocentric
beauty standards can be damaging to a Black woman’s psyche (skinny, blonde,
etc) so can black standards of beauty (if you don’t look like Beyonce or if
your butt isn’t THIS big). It’s not surprising eating disorders are actually
increasing with Black women (Google: “Breaking the Silence: Eating Disorders in
Black Women”). I’m sure some of you have heard about the young black woman that
recently died in surgery because of a desire to have a bigger bottom (Google: “Tragic bottom implant girl thought having illegal injection
would make her a hip hop star”). Black women are being pressured to fit into
two contradictory body types. While I will always bump Jennifer Hudson’s song
“Spotlight” it’s becoming quite disconcerting to flip the channels and see her
hollering at me to join Weight Watchers (as well as Mariah Carey and Janet
Jackson). It seems Black women have become the new target to make money off of
and what better way than to remind us about how undesirable we are.
So, what’s my advice to Black women regarding weight? I
feel you have to do what’s best for you. It’s a personal journey. If you feel
it’s time to start being healthier then do it. If you are just concerned about
living your life then do that too.
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